hey sis, pull up a chair
Chaos-tested advice for women building their own thing.
I’m Malificent: startup operator, freelancer and your neighborhood big sis. I learned most of this the fast, messy way so you don’t have to.

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the short version
Hi, I’m Malificent.
I spent years inside startups, where the job description is basically “figure it out.” It taught me to adapt fast, and it also burned me out on W-2 life.
So I went freelance. Now I help early-stage startups get their operations in order, and I coach women who want to build a freelance career without the guesswork. This blog is where I share what’s working, what isn’t, and what I wish someone had told me sooner.
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You’re drowning in the day-to-day and everything lives in somebody’s head. I set up the systems, processes and tools that let a small team move fast without breaking everything.
for future freelancers
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You have skills and want clients who pay for them. Together we’ll build your profile, your pitch and your pricing so you can earn on your own terms.
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